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  Who here gives to the homeless?

  by JW83 in

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  i'm interested in how many here give to the homeless, or any kind of charity, since that was not a part of the witness experience.

  i have to admit that my heart is hard ...

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  I feel like problems start when generalizations are made. I've known many homeless people or panhandlers (not always homeless) who would love a really healthy meal, who don't drink, use drugs or smoke. Others prefer not to do that, would rather eat crap and spend money on substances. Some are really friendly, others belligerent. Isn't this the way it is with all populations of people?

  Considering what social services are like in the States (abysmal) if I'm giving someone money (I have on a couple of occasions) I feel like they should spend it on what they need to. I don't feel comfortable telling someone not to spend it on drugs. Maybe using drugs is the only thing that makes it possible to cope with all the crap in their lives, that without the drugs they'd kill themselves or hurt someone else. It's not my place to decide what's right for people, esp since there isn't enough consistent and good help out there for free.

  I'm really glad to read here that there other folks around that talk with panhandlers and look folks in the eye and smile. There are literally only a handful of people around here who do. There are some folks around here who set up tables in outdoor public places of healthy, cooked food to give away to anyone who wants to eat. It's not backed by an organization, not always a consistent thing, just folks who do what they can when they can. The smiles on both sides are endless. What a cool thing :)

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  Who here gives to the homeless?

  by JW83 in

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  i'm interested in how many here give to the homeless, or any kind of charity, since that was not a part of the witness experience.

  i have to admit that my heart is hard ...

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  There are many programs available to assist the homeless, should they opt to receive the help that's already available. That would make sense to me, if there were enough services available. The shelters around here get completely filled up and they have to turn people away. There isn't enough public housing to everyone who needs a real home instead of just a shelter. Also, shelters can be scary and oppressive places to stay. Many shelters kick people out during the day (during daytime work hours) to wander the streets. This is especially a problem for anyone who is disabled, has kids or is elderly. I know that these conditions exist outside of where I live.

  Most of the homeless are aware of the various feeding outlets that service thier community.

  Yes, I'm sure that most people are aware of these places. However, not only does the food taste really bad at many places, but it is almost completely lacking in nutrition and is high in sodium, fats and white flours (empty calories.) It's enough to make you physically sick. This does not seem to me like the right way to treat anyone, but also doesn't make sense economically. It means more folks in ER's and doctor's offices paid for by taxes. If you are allergic to foods (as many are) then you have another problem. If you're a vegetarian, you can completely forget eating at these places (poverty should not dictate personal ethics.)

  I don't give to panhandlers or charities. The only reason why I don't is because I don't have the money to do so - I receive benefits in order to survive. Receiving assistance of any kind is not what encourages helplessness. It makes folks feel cared about. It's hopelessness, alienation and a complicated web of politics that encourages helplessness.

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  Which meetings did you hate the most?

  by JH in

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  out of the 5 weekly meetings, here are the ones i hated the most.. in order.

  1. theocratic ministry school ( i hated speaking in public) got me so nervous.. 2. service meeting ( too much crap and statistics and presentations).

  3. the book study ( just a waist of time ).

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  Some people have mentioned surviving the assemblies. Me, I liked assemblies because that was the only "family vacation" we ever had. Got away from town, ate out and sometimes assemblies were outside in the summer or in climate controlled buildings. When I got older, I used to prentend to take notes on what was happening. In fact, I was writing something else :) If it hadnt' been for the assemblies, we never would have went anywhere.

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  Which meetings did you hate the most?

  by JH in

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  out of the 5 weekly meetings, here are the ones i hated the most.. in order.

  1. theocratic ministry school ( i hated speaking in public) got me so nervous.. 2. service meeting ( too much crap and statistics and presentations).

  3. the book study ( just a waist of time ).

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  Since I considered them to all be boring and horrid, I came up with some coping mechanisms. I used to analyze how what they were saying was completely ridiculous. Bookstudies were good for daydreaming, esp if there is a couch to curl up on. Very easy to keep track of what was going on, in case of emergency. Ever since I can remember I wanted to be an actress. Since this was a big no-no, I put my performing energies into Theocratic Ministry "performances".

  For my own twisted entertainment value, I still have my "Speech Counsel" sheet. Since it is marked "Personal", I will share it :)

  Due to some kind of twist of fate, I was always talk number 2. I gave a total 7 performances in '77 and '78, with "G" marked in all boxes. If this wasn't good acting, I don't know what is :) I still love to pretend...

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  i want a tattoo!!!

  by tsunami_rid3r in

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  i want it covering my left bicep, shoulder, and left boob.

  add a nipple ring on the left side too.

  maybe tribal, maybe a big ass snake, i dont know, something that expresses me, something artsy...ideas?

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  I only have one right now, will probably get another. Just waiting for the right time/ idea/ artist.

  I wanted to include a photo before, but my browser wouldn't let me. Here's a link to a picture of it online.

  http://www.care2.com/c2c/photos/view/181/253738455/Accessories/P9270144_edited.JPG.html

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  i want a tattoo!!!

  by tsunami_rid3r in

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  i want it covering my left bicep, shoulder, and left boob.

  add a nipple ring on the left side too.

  maybe tribal, maybe a big ass snake, i dont know, something that expresses me, something artsy...ideas?

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  Yeah, piercings are easier if you change your mind. I have a pierced eyebrow and muliple piercings in my ears, some of which I may want to let close up (I've had them for a very long time). I also have a tattoo.

  Unlike some, I don't have concerns if my tattoo is visible, but like some folks have said, things change over the years, so caution is a good thing. I just got mine a couple of years ago and I'm 39. I'm an artist and performer, so it fits okay with my lifestyle.

  Tatt suggestions...don't get one on impulse, plan it out very well.

  Avoid anyone that doesn't do original work. Ask to see the photos of their work and see if the kind of designs they have done are original, well done and the kind of style that you're into. Even if you want something straight out of a book, generally anyone who doesn't create their own designs isn't a very good artist and may not do a good job in general.

  If you can't find anyone around who is suitable, wait. You'll eventually find someone.

  Creating an original design with the artist I feel is a good idea, that way you don't end up bored with it and there aren't a bunch of folks walking around with the same body art.

  Part of my tatto contains kanji (Japanese characters) and I got it done by someone born and raised in Japan, who is also an excellent calligrapher. I've seen some awful kanji, so I was very careful - esp since I am half Japanese :) Went out of my way to find him (it was very difficult) and I have no regrets about that. I had ideas of what I wanted before I went, and we worked a couple of hours together to create something that I really love.

  Hope this helps.

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  **My SSD Hearing**or What I did on my Summer Vacation

  by BrendaCloutier in

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  what i did for my summer vacation.

  by brenda lynn cloutier.

  i went to the social security hearing chambers and saw a judge.

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  Sorry to hear about this. Glad you have a lawyer and a good doc. It can be tought getting on SSDI - I never had to go to court, but had to appeal the initial decision ( I consulted an attorney, probably the only way I got it without court). They put you thru such hell. I wish you well.

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  What's your favorite music group that I probably haven't heard of?

  by joelbear in

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  i'll start.. guster.

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  Kodo. A Japanese taiko drumming troupe (mostly traditional Japanese drumming.) I also like Cyclub, a local hardcore punk band (not my favorite, though.) As you can tell, I don't like a wide variety of music :)

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  Cures for a cough??

  by under74 in

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  i got hit with a cold about 2 days ago.

  i'm feeling much better than yesterday but i've developed this abnoxious cough.

  anyone know any cures or at least know something to relieve it a little?

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  Here's some info I got from some books that I have - several options.:

  1)Dry, persistent cough: poultice of roasted onion applied to the chest every two hours.

  2)Onions can also be drunk as a warm broth to cleanse the airways and reduce congestion.

  3) For bronchitis or asthma add a handful of young nettles to one cup of boiling water. Strain and drink the juice.

  4) A cabbage leaf poultice works well when chest is tight from coughing. Crush the leaves with a rolling pin until juice starts to appear. Place three or four leaves over the chest area and cover with gauze. Place warm blanket over to keep it in place. You may also drink the cabbage juice sweetened with honey. (above from "A Guide to Natural Home Remedies" by Liz Bestic)

  5)Cabbage and carrot juice recipe 1/2 c cabbage juice, 1/4 cup carrot juice, 1/4 cup celery juice, chopped fresh cilantro leaves (garnish) Blend and garnish with cilantro.

  6)This is under the "flu" section, but have found it helpful any time I am feeling sick with any symptoms. Kashmir Spicy Tea 1/2 oz. fresh ginger root (peeled and sliced fairly thin), 1 cinnamon stick, 4 cloves, 4 black peppercorns, 1 tsp. corriander seeds, 2 1/2 cups cold water, honey and/ or lemon to taste (optional). Put all the spices and water in a pan and bring to boil. Lower heat, cover and simmer for 15 minutes, then strain. Add lemon/ honey. Drink as hot as possible, 3-6 times a day while symptoms are acute.(from "Drink to Your Health" by Anne McIntyre)

  I hope that this helps some. I'm not into chemicals, so if I can't manage to make stuff, I get homeopathic syrups. They actually work to clear conditions up, not just treat symptoms. They are more expensive than traditional stuff, but worth it 'cause they work well (best if used when caught early, takes much longer if taken later on) Thing is you have to remember to take the dosages on time, otherwise it doesn't work well. I've been able to avoid doctors this way. Hope you are feeling better soon.

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  Birthdays?? Good explaination...please??

  by inarock&ahardplace in

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  i would love it if someone out there could clarify for my stubborn brain just why birthdays are forbidden??

  for the life of me, and i was a witness for over 30 years, i still can't wrap my brain around that issue.

  i need something more than the two accounts 'gone wrong' and pagen, in the bible.

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  Rayvin,

  I could see how we would have similar experiences. After all, we are from the same family of birds. Caw, caw! :)

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